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«There are social media worlds that are like safe spaces»

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«There are social media worlds that are like safe spaces»

Leah, 17, and Vanessa, 15, appreciate the nice aspects of social media. But they try to avoid the hate. Liam, 11, is not yet on Instagram or Tiktok, but enjoys Snapchat. How young people perceive and deal with social media.

Picture: Salvatore Vinci / 13 Photo

Recorded by Mirjam Oertli

All three young people attend the Wiedikon cantonal school in the city of Zurich.

Leah: «It's easy to switch off when you're watching reels on Insta or Tiktok.»

Vanessa: «That's right. When I was studying on Tiktok once, I even briefly forgot about my exam the next day.»

Liam: «My parents don't allow me to use Tiktok or Instagram yet. But I don't want that either. I'm mainly on Snapchat. I can switch off and it's fun.»

I think Snapchat is cool on holiday because you can see where everyone is.

Vanessa, 15

Leah: «I downloaded the apps out of curiosity when I first got a mobile phone. But it wasn't until I got older and spent more time on my mobile phone that I started using Instagram and Tiktok. That's actually why I spent more time on my mobile phone. You quickly become so ... not addicted, but ... because everyone has it, you want it.»

Liam: «But there are people who don't answer the phone anymore and are only at home on their mobile phones. I don't think that's good.»

Vanessa: «Yes, social media can be addictive.»

Liam: «I'm allowed to game for two hours a day. I think that's enough. And Snapchat is blocked after 30 minutes.»

Vanessa: «I think Snapchat is cool on holiday because you can see where everyone is. But I'm on Tiktok most often. I can't say for how long. There are days, before exams, when I'm not on my mobile phone at all. On other days, it's sometimes longer.»

Liam: «Sometimes I'd like to be on for longer. But I only know tricks to get round the lock for Apple devices.»

Leah: «I sometimes delete apps before exam periods. The distance is good. Afterwards, however, I'm also happy to download them again and see what's happened.»

Two worlds in social media

Vanessa: «But there are also two worlds on social media. The nice, heartfelt, funny one. And the less nice, where there's a lot of hate. I once came across the Tiktok account of a person with an eating disorder. She was encouraging people to get out there. And the comments often said «son of a bitch video» and other insulting things. People don't realise what that can do to you.»

Liam: «I don't understand it. There's no reason to write something like that. But there are still people who think it's funny. Things like that also happen on Snapchat.»

Vanessa: «Sometimes I think it would be better if everyone deleted everything. Although ... there are also areas, for example on books, cooking recipes or learning tips, where I hardly ever read hate comments. These are worlds within social media that are like safe spaces.»

Younger children in particular don't understand that a lot of things are fake. That's why I think stricter age restrictions would be good.

Leah, 17

Leah: «These predominate for me. Probably because content is personalised. That's also critical because you only see one side.»

Vanessa: «Like the gap between rich and poor, there is a gap in terms of opinions.»

Leah: «Younger children in particular don't understand that a lot of things are fake. That's why I think stricter age restrictions would be good. I also think it's a shame when ten-year-olds wear make-up and dress revealingly because that's what they see. And don't realise that everything looks so perfect because there are so many beauty filters.»

Liam: «It's important not to be influenced by this - no matter how beautiful the people in the pictures look. But I can imagine that some people then doubt their own looks.»

Vanessa: «But I'm not a fan of parents withdrawing mobile phones. It just makes it more interesting. And sets children and parents against each other.»

Leah: «My father took mine away from me once, but I just got angry. Talking about risks makes much more sense.»

This text was originally published in German and was automatically translated using artificial intelligence. Please let us know if the text is incorrect or misleading: feedback@fritzundfraenzi.ch