Columns6 minDefiant children have defiant parentsWhat does child integrity mean? Jesper Juul on defiant parents and why a clear no relieves children.
Columns5 minPreserving the dignity of the childA child often puts up fundamental resistance to the expectation that it should obey. Prevent power struggles and endless negotiations.
Columns8 minRespect the children's boundariesChildren signal to their parents what they like and what they don't like. And parents should maintain their integrity, but also make their own boundaries clear.
Columns5 minDear parents, think more about yourselves!Many parents only ask themselves what they can do for their children. However, mums and dads should first ask themselves what they need themselves.