Is my child ready for their own mobile phone?

The first mobile phone is not only a big event for the child, but also for the parents. It marks another step towards independence for the offspring. However, the device can also put a strain on the parent-child relationship. When a child gets their first mobile phone is always an individual decision and depends on their stage of development, their environment and their personal beliefs. However, there are a few questions that parents can use as a guide.

When is the child old enough?

The child's level of development plays a role here, as do their living conditions. Experts recommend that children should not have their own mobile phone before the age of 9. In fact, I think it would be better from the age of 12. The way your child deals with media is also a valuable indicator: Can they limit themselves? Do they recognise the quality of the content? Can they handle the expensive device responsibly?

Does it have to be a new mobile phone?

An older mobile phone belonging to a parent or sibling is sufficient. Second-hand mobile phones are also a cheap and climate-friendly option. The following rule of thumb applies: the younger the user, the more robust the device should be.

Who pays the running costs?

A prepaid subscription is best to start with. The child should bear part of the costs. This teaches them that using a mobile phone also costs something.

What should be released?

Modern smartphones have practical options for making the device childproof and thus making it more difficult to view inappropriate content, for example. Of course, the child should have a say in what is blocked on the mobile phone. All major Swiss mobile phone providers also offer filter software which, once set up, keeps certain inappropriate content away from your child.

What are the first steps?

When the child receives the desired device, it is the parents' duty. They may first have to explain the basic steps and functions: How can I make phone calls, how do I save new contacts, how can I send a message? A discussion about the dangers of the Internet is also necessary. Rules are needed here. Not only in terms of online time, but also in terms of what content and functions can be used. Facebook, TikTok or Instagram should be avoided at the beginning.

Mobile phones are a new addition to family life. Parents need to set a good example for their children when it comes to media literacy.