«I would much rather play the piano than the guitar»

«Why don't you ask Sarah?»

I've been playing the guitar since I was nine years old. But now I just don't feel like it anymore. For months now, I've only been practising in the evenings before guitar lessons. And my parents say I have to keep playing because it's a talent and you can't just stop doing something you've started. But I would much rather learn to play the piano now.
Olivia, 12 years old

Dear Olivia
It's great to be able to play a musical instrument. It inspires people when someone can make beautiful music - whether on stage or in a small circle with family or friends. And if someone only plays music for themselves because they enjoy it - that's great too. This requires talent on the one hand, but of course also hard work and perseverance to make real progress.

But if you don't feel like doing it for a long time, you shouldn't feel bad about it. Not even you, dear Olivia. After all, you've been playing the guitar for around three years now. Perhaps your parents don't even realise at the moment how long you've been at it? And now that you've become a teenager, your interests and hobbies have certainly changed. What's more, there's little point in reluctantly practising only the bare minimum the evening before your lessons. Your guitar teacher will also notice this.

I think it's understandable that you want to try something new. It shows your curiosity, openness and love of learning.

Now you need good arguments to convince your parents to let you switch to a new instrument. Explain to them why you've had enough of the guitar and are now ready to broaden your musical horizons. Simply saying: «I don't feel like it anymore. I want to play the piano now» won't achieve enough. It's better to tell them what your thoughts and plans are.

This means: you should definitely ask yourself the question about your personal motives. What made you suddenly want to play the piano? Is there a role model from the music scene or do you know someone personally who plays the piano? Or is it about learning an instrument that also allows you to sing (although this would also be possible with the guitar)?

I know that many parents are of the opinion that a child has to stick to the one thing they started. That is basically correct. After all, you are also entering into an agreement with the music school because you are taking up a place in the instrumental lessons. You shouldn't just throw in the towel during the school year.

There are also some children who want to make music but whose families simply don't have the money for it. Nevertheless, I think it's understandable that you want to try something new. It shows your curiosity, your openness and your love of learning.

Try to talk to your parents about it and find a deal. If your parents demand that you continue taking guitar lessons at least until the end of the school year, I can understand that.

It is worth it if you are seriously committed to your cause.

Suggest to your parents that you only rent a piano for the time being and that you attend lessons for at least a year. It's definitely worth it if you make a serious commitment to your cause - then your parents will realise how important it is to you.

I wish you every success!