What tip would you give adults?
In the video series «And what do you think?», psychologists Stefanie Rietzler and Fabian Grolimund interview young people on the topics of school, parents, friendship and the future. In the new episode, they wanted to know from the young people what advice they would give adults on how to deal with teenagers.
What do teenagers want from adults? Is it more respect or more freedom? If they could slip into the role of adults, they would give them the following tips for dealing with teenagers.
"What tip would you give adults?"
For the new film series "And what do you think?", developed by psychologists Stefanie Rietzler and Fabian Grolimund in collaboration with the Elternsein Foundation, young people aged 13 to 18 make their voices heard and answer questions about school, parents, friendship and the future.
All episodes in the overview:
- «Wer ist deine Lieblingslehrerin?»
- «Wofür bist du deinen Eltern dankbar?»
- «Wie sollen Eltern auf schlechte Noten reagieren?»
- «Was macht für dich eine gute Schule aus?»
- «Wie sollen sich Eltern verhalten, wenn das Kind etwas tut womit sie nicht einverstanden sind?»
- «Welche Werte können Eltern ihren Kindern mitgeben?»
- «Mama, du nimmst mich nicht ernst!»
- «Was macht eine Familie glücklich?»
- «Wie gewinnt man Freunde?»
- «Woran zerbrechen Freundschaften?»
- «Was wünschst du dir für die Zukunft?»
- «Was macht dir Angst, wenn du an die Zukunft denkst?»
- «Was würdest du an dir ändern?»
- «Wie stehst du zu Vorurteilen?»
- «Welche Sätze von Erwachsenen nerven dich?»
- «Hast du schon mal Erfahrung mit Mobbing gemacht?»
More video series by Stefanie Rietzler and Fabian Grolimund:
- Learning tips for children: How can parents help their children to learn? What motivates them, what only causes conflict at home?
- Strong child: How do children develop self-esteem and a sense of self-efficacy? How can parents support them in this?
- Together we are class - the series for teachers and their pupils
- Learning tips for teenagers: Jess helps Adi pass his final apprenticeship exam
Read more about parents and young people:
- 13 questions about puberty
My child is smoking pot, what should I do? When can children stay at home alone? Experts answer these and other questions in our big dossier on puberty and growing up. - How does parenting work without scolding?
It's part of everyday life in most families: parents scold their children, sometimes more, sometimes less violently. This is usually triggered by stress and excessive demands. But boundaries and rules cannot be enforced by shouting at them, say parenting experts. And too many tantrums damage the child's development in the long term. Parenting without scolding - how does it work? - «Children need a healthy amount of neglect»
Psychotherapist Allan Guggenbühl is one of the most sought-after youth experts and has been counselling families for over 30 years. Guggenbühl knows that parents today are more committed. However, they would rather ignore the adversities of life than prepare their children for them.
