«We were overcautious and still got infected»
Series: Families and corona worldwide - Part 10
What is the current situation with the coronavirus in Belgium?
In general, however, the measures have been well received and supported by the local population. The rules are based on the recommendations of virologists and are still strict: we are allowed to have one external contact per household per month. Four people are allowed outside. There are no exceptions for Christmas or New Year's Eve.
What is the work situation like for you and your husband?
In Belgium, it's common for both parents to return to work full-time when they have children. Babies can go to nursery from the age of three months and there are also childcare facilities after school or during the school holidays. When the crèches and schools closed in spring, it was a huge stress for many parents - including us. What's more, we both had even more work due to the crisis. We then alternated between childcare and work and both worked late in the evenings and at night. It was very exhausting and there was no time for us at all. If the sleep deficit wasn't too bad, we would read a good book at night, but that was it.
How are your children coping with the new situation? What specifically has changed for them?
The situation was depressing for William, he missed his friends a lot during the lockdown. Some of his friends met up every day, while we were more careful and only met up with other children once a week. He has realised that the others are growing closer together and he has felt included. He is happy that the schools are now open again and that he sees his friends so often!
For his birthday in autumn, we hesitated for a long time about what we wanted to do and ended up inviting his friends to an afternoon in the park. It was forecast to rain and we weren't sure whether all the children would have suitable clothing - the class is very mixed socially. Fortunately, it didn't rain after all and the party was a complete success.
How do you feel about the situation as a whole: has corona opened new doors for family life or rather caused additional stress?
Christmas is just around the corner: do you already know how you'll be celebrating?
William then wants to give a piano concert via Skype for the rest of the family. Actually, we would have liked to go on a slightly longer trip and that would basically be possible in terms of the conditions. However, this project far exceeds my current energy level.
How close is Corona? Have you been in quarantine yourself? What are your children doing at home?
What is your wish for 2021?
More on the topic of corona:
- "Corona vaccination for children: in one year at the earliest"
What are the latest findings on the role of children in the current coronavirus crisis? And: Can a school require a coronavirus test? Prof Dr Christoph Aebi provides important answers.
- "No one can be forced to have the coronavirus vaccination"
The announced vaccination against corona brings hope for many people, but at the same time many fears arise. Franziska Sprecher, Director of the Centre for Health Law and Management in Healthcare, talks about mandatory vaccination for specific groups of people and the question of whether schools can require vaccination.
- How much coronavirus can parents expect their children to have?
The second wave of coronavirus is here and every day we are confronted with news of new infections and new guidelines. How much should parents expect their children to be exposed to? And how do you react when the virus is really close; affecting friends, relatives or the child itself? Adolescent psychologist Nadine Messerli-Bürgy provides answers. - Coronavirus dossier
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