Two gifted children talk about their everyday lives
"I hardly have to study"
Ella didn't have any problems making the leap. She quickly found her feet and mastered school with ease. "I hardly have to study," says Ella today, "I prefer to play floorball." Everything went smoothly until the end of third grade, "but since middle school," says her mother, "Ella's enthusiasm for school has visibly waned". The nine-year-old is no longer interested in maths, which she has always excelled at, out of boredom, she says. When asked why this is the case, Ella shrugs her shoulders.
"That made us wary," says Ella's mum, "and so we went to talk to the headteacher and Ella's teacher. She saw no reason for a gifted assessment. Our request was unsuccessful." The parents then financed the assessment out of their own pocket. The assessment also revealed that Ella was intellectually gifted. The parents knocked on the teacher's door again. "She felt cornered by the findings," believes Ella's mother. "In any case, we were met with a blank stare." As parents, you are quickly categorised as the over-ambitious ones who push their child, says father Daniel: "What we want for our children is as normal a school career as possible."
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"If the pace isn't right, I get antsy"
The parents quickly realised that their middle son was different from his peers. At just two years old, Juri was solving 100-piece puzzles, and at four he was reading stories to his little brother, which he simultaneously translated into dialect. "The wave of books," says Juri, "hasn't died down to this day." The eleven-year-old reads whatever he can get his hands on: Disney's funny paperbacks, novels, newspapers, non-fiction books.
"As a pupil, Juri was a conformist," says his mother, "as soon as he got home, he started screaming. He couldn't tolerate any more externalisation and had the feeling that he had no time left for his own mental work."
In third grade, a retired physicist and a secondary school teacher worked with him. At some point, Yuri's need for support began to exceed the school's resources, and his parents observed with concern the balancing act that the boy had to master between the different places of learning. They wanted him to have a permanent place in a class. This led to the decision in favour of the gifted school, which the canton of Lucerne finances through a special school ruling for the highly gifted.
Juri prefers to acquire knowledge on his own. This is difficult to reconcile with school, says his mother: "All we really heard was what Juri was doing badly - or not according to plan. I would have expected more openness from a small public school."
Juri really likes animals. "I don't eat them either," he says, "that would be a shame." Juri already wanted to become a farmer; the non-fiction book "1000 Questions for Young Farmers" is on the shelf. A budget calculation put him off the idea. "Maybe," says Juri, "I'd rather become a programmer."
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- A child is considered gifted if they have an IQ of more than 130 points. What does this mean for their school career? And how should they be supported? Answers and background information on giftedness in our large dossier.