«Sometimes I wish someone would take my mobile away from me»

Time: 3 min
Mia, 13, is one of those teenagers who uses her smartphone without any set rules. Her parents don't monitor her screen time or the content she views. Mia is completely at home on social media – TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat are all part of her daily life.
Recorded by Florin Schranz

Image: Adobe Stock

I got my first mobile phone when I was in Year 4, so about three or four years ago. I've actually been on social media for quite a while now. I use TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat. I didn't have it for a while – about six months – but I've got it back now.

I spend about an hour a day on social media. All in all, I'm probably on my mobile for two to three hours a day. I sometimes check my screen time, but not always.

Once I start scrolling, I often don't even realise how long I've been at it.

My feed is mostly full of posts about horse riding and sport. I ride myself, which is why there's so much of that. I also watch funny videos. Political posts pop up sometimes, but not that often.

Once I start scrolling, I sometimes don't even realise how long I've been at it. Then, suddenly, a lot of time has gone by. There are days when I'm on my phone a lot, and others when I hardly touch it at all.

When I realise I should really be doing something else, I sometimes listen to music and put my phone away. Then I do what I actually set out to do, like tidying my room .

I used to have a time limit on my mobile, but I don't have one anymore. My parents don't check what I'm looking at either, and they don't have any set rules, like a specific time when I have to switch it off.

Mia hands in her mobile phone at school.
At school, Mia (on the right) and her friend Ronja have to hand in their mobile phones. Instead, they can use a tablet.

But I wouldn't mind if they did have a look. I've got nothing to hide. Sometimes, when I've been scrolling for ages, I even find myself briefly wishing someone would come and take my phone away so I can stop scrolling. But at the same time, it would be a shame if it just disappeared.

When I see people on social media who have a lot of money or are doing something I'd like to do myself, it doesn't really affect me. I don't get jealous. I tend to think that I've got plenty myself. When I see something nice or funny, I'm usually just happy about it. After spending a long time on my phone, I usually end up feeling rather tired. Sometimes, looking back, I also think: I could actually have done something more sensible.

When my mobile isn't even nearby, I can concentrate better because I'm not constantly wondering whether someone has sent me a message.

I can already tell that my mobile phone distracts me when I'm doing my homework. When it's lying next to me, I keep glancing at it. At school, we have to hand in our mobiles, and I actually think that's normal. When my mobile isn't anywhere near me, I can concentrate better because I'm not constantly wondering whether someone's sent me a message.

I used to have a child safety app on my mobile that my dad had installed. It blocked certain content. Since I got a new mobile, that's no longer the case. Sometimes I just use social media to take my mind off things – for example, when I'm bored or don't feel like doing anything else. Time flies when I'm on my mobile.

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