«Help, our daughter thinks she's a natural»

Natural talent or not. People have a natural tendency to favour pleasure over work. If you really want your daughter to practise, then make her do it. Only very few children voluntarily sit down at the piano. And you can't expect a nine-year-old to have a deep understanding of the meaning of daily practice. First homework, then practising, then fun. If you stick to it, your daughter will too.

She should soon realise for herself that she is not a natural. It remains to be seen whether she will recognise that she therefore needs to practise more. Until then, you probably have no choice but to encourage her to practise every day. And be prepared for the fact that you probably don't have a future Martha Argerich in your family, but rather an amateur pianist who will later accuse you of either always having to practise on the piano or that her parents didn't encourage her to practise consistently enough.

The best way to learn is to be enthusiastic about something. Pressure, on the other hand, will achieve nothing in the long term. Least of all will your daughter retain her current enjoyment of playing the piano. Keep listening to her practise and enjoy the small steps forward. It is to be hoped that your daughter will remain interested in playing the piano - natural talent or not!

