Good grades should be rewarded with money. Right?

Educational myth 1:

Good grades should be rewarded with money. Right?
Good grades should be rewarded with money. Right?

That's what the expert says:

«Giving money for good grades is nonsense. Because by only rewarding what is measurable - in this case good grades - parents are setting the wrong incentives. The child learns that a grade is worth the effort. There is no money for other achievements, such as helping classmates with their homework. The child therefore automatically categorises helping with homework as less important. In addition, gifts of money quickly lose their effect. This is because the reward only works if the parents keep giving out money. If they stop,
the effect fizzles out. The child thinks: Now it's no longer worth it. The problem is that they don't learn with money because they are really interested, but only for the reward. But the joy of the subject matter itself should be awakened.»

Etienne Bütikofer ist Leiter des Büros für Bildungsfragen, Dozent an der Pädagogischen Hochschule Bern und Schulleiter in Kernenried / Zauggenried BE.
Etienne Bütikofer is Head of the Office for Educational Issues, lecturer at the Bern University of Teacher Education and headteacher in Kernenried / Zauggenried BE.

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