Children's photos online - how to share them more safely

There is the term «digital footprint». It refers to the photos and information we leave behind online. An American study found that 74 per cent of parents who are online at least once a day also use social networks. And they share photos of their children there. So even small children have a digital footprint. Some develop a real mania from the joy of making their cute offspring accessible to the wider world. The «New York Times» calls it «oversharenting». This can sometimes go quite far, as a look at the parenting blog «STFU Parents» shows: A new mum holds her placenta up to the camera. Another posts a photo online showing the floor on which her youngest child has just relieved himself. Extreme examples, of course, but it's easy for the net-savvy parents of the 30+ generation, who have grown up with Twitter and the like, to forget themselves when it comes to their own enthusiasm about their offspring.

Children's photos on the net? An interview on the media information website "Schau hin".

Sharing is not always good

«Sharing children's photos is a need for carers, especially because childcare is often carried out by several people and grandparents are often heavily involved,» explains social media expert and teacher Philipp Wampfler. But we don't always realise the danger of posting pictures of our own children online. They attract people who are curious and easily irritated. Or find our pictures stupid and embarrassing. These photos can later be used against us - by anyone who somehow falls into the network. Sure, we have signed up for these networks ourselves - but have our children? This was also the opinion of the North Rhine-Westphalia police in Hagen, who posted the following message on Facebook a few months ago: «Please stop posting photos of your children on Facebook and Co. for everyone to see. Thank you. » Within six days, the police station's post reached 16 million people. It went on to say that paedophiles could use such photos and publish them elsewhere. This idea caused the online community to go crazy. Users exchanged views in 5000 comments.

Children have privacy

The most important point is the child's privacy. «Parents cannot know what interests a child will have and what pictures they will want to publish of themselves. There is nothing that could lead to a balancing of interests here: The parents' interest in publishing pictures of their children is certainly less strong than the children's right,» says Philipp Wampfler. According to the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child, «parents are responsible for younger children and must decide in the best interests of the child». It is therefore important for parents to ask themselves why they are posting a picture of their child on Facebook. Is it about self-expression? Do they want to do something good for the child? And how might the child whose growing up is documented on the internet feel? «Photos that are taken may only be published if the people photographed have given their consent,» says Philipp Wampfler. This applies all the more to underage children. «For me, it's important that families retain control over how the images are stored and who can see them.» Parents manage the child's right to have their image protected. «As soon as children are big enough, they should also be involved, e.g. in the selection of published images. I also think it makes sense to keep deleting or archiving these albums.» Because one thing the internet never does is forget. The biggest dangers lurk in the security settings that parents make in their social networks. These include mentioning names and locations as well as geotagging a picture. There is a wide range of photo-sharing platforms. We show you the safest places to share your photos.

Picture: Fotalia

Amazon Cloud Drive

This is more of a virtual hard drive than a pure photo sharing platform, with applications for iPhone, Android devices and desktop programmes for Mac and Windows users. An Amazon account is required for access. Photos, documents and other formats can be loaded into the storage and then shared via a link.

Dropbox

If you want to share images quickly and easily, we recommend Dropbox. The service allows you to upload images to your own online storage by simply dragging and dropping. The photos can then be shared via a link.

Google Photos

Google Photos (formerly: Picasa) is a mixture of desktop software and online platform. Once you have downloaded the software and registered with Google, you can edit images, link people in the photos and add background information such as GPS data. If you want to share your photos with friends, you can upload them to virtual web albums at the click of a mouse and send them to friends via a link.

Flickr

Probably the best-known platform for sharing photos is particularly popular because of its universal applicability. Amateur photographers can simply upload their pictures to their online storage using the Flickr upload desktop software. Once the images are online, Flickr automatically creates a chronology of the photos, counts the number of hits and enables them to be shared on social networks such as Facebook.

Digitaler BilderrahmenDirekt aus dem Familienurlaub ins Wohnzimmer der Grosseltern: Die Wifi- Bilderrahmen haben eine personalisierte E-Mail-Adresse, an die die Fotos versendet werden. Mehr als einen WLAN-Anschluss brauchen die Empfänger nicht. Wichtiger Vorteil: Die Bilder kommen sicher nur im ausgewählten Zimmer an. Leider gibt es noch wenig Modelle (z. B. Kodak Pulse).
Digital picture frame

Straight from the family holiday to the grandparents' living room: The Wi-Fi picture frames have a personalised e-mail address to which the photos are sent. The recipients do not need more than a WLAN connection. An important advantage: the pictures are only sent to the selected room. Unfortunately, there are still few models available (e.g. Kodak Pulse).

PostHaven

A blogging platform where you can create a private photo album. Everyone decides exactly which users are granted access. The use itself is free of charge. Each registered domain has a data volume of 1 GB (approx. 1000 photos) at its disposal. Other options and familiar to many parents are: closed groups on Facebook, other Apple tools and WhatsApp groups. On Instagram, the photos are public and searchable by default - unfortunately, this also applies to profile and cover photos on Facebook.

Dawawas.com

The European version of a cloud service for photos is free and makes it possible to collect, exchange, share and comment on personal photos - simply, securely, from anywhere and from all devices. The photos of all participants can be uploaded to the cloud in shared albums via the various apps or the laptop and viewed directly via Smart TV, on the computer or with the apps. For each photo album, you can decide individually to whom the photos are made accessible. The default setting for each experience is absolutely private - only invited people can even see the pictures.


Tips for parents

  • Machen Sie Ihr Profil nicht öffentlich
    Wenn Sie Ihr Facebook- oder Instagram-Profil als öffentlich eingerichtet haben, kann jeder die hochgeladenen Fotos sehen. Schränken Sie am besten auf einen ausgewählten Freundeskreis ein und deaktivieren Sie den Haken für die Freigabe in Suchmaschinen. Beim Fotografieren darauf achten, dass das Kind nicht direkt erkennbar ist. Wählen Sie einen Ausschnitt oder eine seitliche Perspektive. Beim Upload per Handy Orterkennung deaktivieren.
  • Teilen Sie nicht die Kinderfotos anderer
    Wenn Menschen Gruppenfotos machen und sie in sozialen Netzwerken teilen, kann das nervig sein. Denn Eltern haben das Recht zu wissen, wer Fotos ihrer Kinder sehen und kommentieren kann. Wenn Sie nicht möchten, dass solche Fotos im Netz auftauchen, ist das Ihr gutes Recht. 
  • Erstellen Sie kein Profil für Ihr Kind
    Es hat einen Grund, dass man ein bestimmtes Alter haben muss, um ein Profil bei Facebook zu haben: Kinder sollten selbst entscheiden können, ob sie ihre Daten den Werbetreibenden zur Verfügung stellen wollen.
  • Behalten Sie das Foto Ihres Kindes in der Badehose für sich
    Kinder in der Badewanne sind süss. Doch möchten Sie, dass alle Welt Sie so privat und in persönlicher Umgebung sehen kann? Nur weil die Kinder noch zu klein sind, selber zu entscheiden, ob sie sich aller Welt zeigen möchten, heisst das nicht, dass Sie das tun dürfen.
  • Kein Kinder-Shaming
    Als vor Jahren Dog Shaming aufkam, generierte es so viele Likes und Threads, dass ein Amerikaner auf die Idee kam, das auch mit seinem Kind zumachen. Das Video wurde ein Internet-Hit und oft kommentiert. Die Blossstellung des Kindes wurde mit Menschen geteilt, die es vielleicht nie treffen wird – was aber wird das Kind später einmal davon halten?
  • Mobbing vorbeugen
    Sie machen sich an eine Powerpoint-Präsentation, klappen Ihren Laptop auf, und als Bildschirmschoner oder -hintergrund erscheint ein Foto Ihrer Kinder, womöglich in einer privaten Umgebung. Das kann den Kindern peinlich sein – ausser bei einem eingeschränkten Publikum. Doch das ist im Internet kaum der Fall. 

The legal situation

From a legal perspective, parents of underage children are free to decide whether to post images online. Children are not yet considered to have the capacity to understand and act, and this also applies to the right to their own image. However, as soon as the child is able to assess the risks involved, they are allowed to participate in the decision. This is the case between the ages of 12 and 14. Then, in theory, children can also ask their parents to remove images from the internet.


About the author:

Claudia Landolt wurde von ihren älteren Jungs gebeten, Kinder- Postings gefälligst zu unterlassen, als sie ein Bild eines Lausshampoos postete. Seither übt sie sich halbwegs eisern in Selbstbeherrschung. 
Claudia Landolt was asked by her older boys to refrain from posting children's posts when she posted a picture of a louse shampoo. Since then, she has practised self-restraint to some extent.

A parents' guide from the University of Basel is available to download here.


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