Children's fears: Our dossier in May
Dear reader
I was five and afraid of the wind. A terrible fear. It happened like this: I was riding my tricycle when a storm broke out. I fought against the wind and the rain to get home. I had to leave my vehicle behind, was almost swept away and made it home with the last of my strength. There I fell into my mum's arms, sobbing - and from then on I was a different boy.
Fear took possession of me, spread, sat in my head, my chest, made breathing difficult. I, the happy, carefree boy I had been a short time before, stood at the window and began to tremble when the leaves moved in the wind. I refused to leave the house or play with other children. My phobia was so strong that I stopped going to nursery school for a year. I only felt safe in a darkened room. My mum reacted lovingly. At first she was worried, later she was at a loss, and finally she took me to therapy.
I still feel very grateful today when I think about how I was healed. My therapist was called Mrs Bischof and she lived in a large house with a garden. The house was a playhouse. There was a sandpit, a table tennis table, countless painting utensils and wooden toys. I was allowed to play to my heart's content for as long as I wanted. Mrs Bischof never talked to me about my fears, she never said: «You're a brave boy, you don't need to be afraid of the wind.» No, she just let me play. And slowly the fear left my body. Today I like it when it's really windy and stormy. I'm a relatively anxiety-free person, I just worry that something could happen to my family.
Read our author Sarah King's dossier to find out how anxiety disorders affect family life and how parents can support anxious children.
There are no great discoveries and progress as long as there is still an unhappy child on earth.
Albert Einstein, physicist (1879 - 1955)
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On behalf of Stiftung Elternsein, the publisher of Fritz+Fränzi, and the editorial team, I would like to thank you for your loyalty. Stay critical. Stay lively. And
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Yours sincerely - Nik Niethammer
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