Annual review of the Parenthood Foundation
Unfortunately, I also experience situations where this tender bond between parents and children seems to be missing. I see parents who are impatient with their children, treating them like an annoying appendage. They press their smartphone into their offspring's hands so that they can talk undisturbed or occupy themselves with their mobile phones.
"But you don't know the circumstances", I hear you say. "You don't even know how exhausting the day was for these mums and dads, how little time they had to juggle work, shopping and picking up the children from nursery or crèche. As a parent, you can get annoyed." You're right, of course. I don't know the circumstances - but as a father of two now grown-up children, I know only too well how complex and demanding being a parent can be.
Ellen Ringier recognised this early on. The lawyer and mother of two was certain that bringing up children would place ever greater demands on us parents. In 2001, she founded the Elternsein Foundation and single-handedly set up a small publishing house. The foundation defined four goals: To support parents with information in their diverse tasks, to make the topic of "parenting" heard in the public sphere, to improve the dialogue between parents and teachers and to help initiate the discussion on the topic of "reconciling work and family life". Fritz+Fränzi is her "printed social project", Ellen Ringier once said.
With issue 12/19, you, dear reader, are holding the 150th issue of Fritz+Fränzi in your hands. The fact that this anniversary falls on the last issue of this year gives us a special year-end. However, the other highlights should not be forgotten. 2019 was an intense year, a year of big and small changes.
More readers and readers
Dossier
Each of this year's ten dossiers deserves to be mentioned and honoured by me. Allow me to emphasise two in particular: The June issue featured "100 Questions - 100 Answers". This was not a conventional topic dossier, but a collection of 100 relevant questions for parents, which were answered by 30 experts. Our author began her research in February 2019. Three months' work for one dossier! Believe me - hardly any other media organisation today allows itself that much time to compile an article of this scope.
The second dossier I would like to mention is entitled "Generation Smartphone". There are thousands of articles, books and recommendations on the subject of media literacy. I asked myself: "What is there to write about this topic? Our author has provided a convincing answer. Her approach: the smartphone has arrived in the centre of our society. There is no point in demonising it. But it's high time we thought about how we parents can manage a mindful approach in order to set an example for our children in the self-determined use of digital devices. A great and incredibly inspiring dossier.
Online
Stefanie Rietzler
"Secure, courageous, free"
Jesper Juul
We are grateful to Caroline Märki that, since the October issue, we have been publishing a chapter from Jesper Juul's now out-of-print book "Wir sind für dich da. 10 tips for authentic parents". Even after his death, Europe's most important educational therapist lives on in all those who have learnt from him.
LCH and VSLCH
In the 12/19 issue, we welcome his successor Dagmar Rösler. The primary school teacher and mother of two says that she does not want to follow in the footsteps of her predecessor , but wants to blaze her own trail. We wish the new President all the very best! And we are delighted to welcome Beat W. Zemp, with his immense wealth of experience, to the advisory board of the Stiftung Elternsein as an advisory member.
There was also a change of leadership at the Swiss Association of Head Teachers VSLCH in August. The new President Thomas Minder gave one of his first interviews to Fritz+Fränzi. In the coming year, you will be able to read about him and his headteachers on a regular basis: from February 2020, the VSLCH will alternate with the LCH in writing a column for Fritz+Fränzi.
Campaign against cyberbullying
Holiday camp for disadvantaged children
For some time now, I have been thinking about giving at least some of these children the gift of a holiday experience. In summer 2020, the time has come: together with the Pestalozzi Children's Foundation, we are organising a holiday camp for disadvantaged children in Trogen in beautiful Appenzell. We will inform you in detail about this event in due course.
New offers for parents
- Where are parents feeling the pinch?
- What else can we do for parents in Switzerland?
- Should we set up a counselling service?
- How can we help to reduce health insurance premiums?
- What suggestions and offers would parents like to see in the leisure sector?
But the fact is: as a parent, you never stop learning. My two children, who are now fully grown, have taught me that.
At the end of this article, it remains for me to thank you, dear reader, most sincerely. For your loyalty. And your attention. In addition to your tasks and duties , you take the time to develop your parenting skills. That cannot be taken for granted.
I wish you peaceful moments and a loving time together with your family this Christmas. The most precious gift you can give a person, and especially your children, is your time.
I'll see you again next February. Take care!
What the Elternsein Foundation does
Parents of babies and small children are usually looked after by a close-knit childcare network. Later on, this childcare provision dissolves and parents are often left to their own devices when the actual work of bringing up their children begins. The Parenthood Foundation promotes and develops parenting skills and supports mothers and fathers in their challenging task of raising their children to become independent, happy and empathetic young adults.
After its establishment in 2001, the Stiftung Elternsein initially focussed on publishing the Swiss parenting magazine Fritz+Fränzi. The foundation has been developing its portfolio for several years and now publishes a career choice special and four special issues for parents of kindergarten children in addition to ten issues of the parents' magazine every year. It also offers a comprehensive online service, a newsletter and its own parents' video programme, which now includes 37 films. The Stiftung Elternsein runs its own campaigns and fundraising activities and organises annual parent events as part of "Talk im Kulturpark".
www.elternsein.ch